Wednesday, February 25, 2009

medals and memories

I hope you will bear with me while I wander down memory lane. When I saw Shea's blog about the boys and their surgery. I felt so bad for all of them. I remember when James, my youngest was five. He had been a sickly child all the time and he had Pneumonia. something we had been warned that could be very serious for him. The doctor decide it was time for him to have his tonsils out. Of course with a family the size of ours, five of our own and two nieces that needed a home there was always something going on. We were temporarily living in Ogden because we were in the process of moving to Fresno. Now two of my daughters also had problems with their tonsils ,as did one of my nieces. My doctor was already aware of these problems and said we should take them all in at once. Because I only wanted my kids to be well, I agreed. Never thinking about what that would involve. My mother in law, who was a little intimated by me and my kids said she would go to the hospital with me. Her son would go to work and the other three kids who were in school, they were in Junior High.
Well, the day came, I picked up grandma, with the four kids and we went to the hospital.St Benedicts in Ogden. They had a room with 4 beds and we were set.

It was a long day, but my best memory of all that was my dear sweet mother in law who helped all of the kids with ice, hugs, kisses what ever they needed. Finally around 6:00 pm , she said quietly. "would you mind if I went home? " She was in her sixties, had been up and going with us since 5:30 or 6:00 that morning. we were about to go home so I called her son and he came to take her home.Next day she came over on the bus and stayed with the kids while I took Tammie back to the hospital for a check up.

So when I said you deserve a medal, I really meant it because it is hard to deal with things like tonsils. Been there done that. glad the boys are well

Saturday, January 24, 2009

QUILTS AND SCHOOL

Quilts are such a fulfilling hobby. It is like you have a blank canvas and a whole pallette of colors to work with. I have often envied artists who have painted even the smallest picture. They have used their imagination to create something. I have two pictures hanging in my bedroom. One is on a large piece of cardboard, painted by a young friend who used various elements to create this picture. I find it very pleasing at times because it shows that he has great potential but is struggling to tell the world what he feels, it also has a piece of tire on it. He calls it his, Hit the road piece. The other picture is of my youngest daughter drawn by her husband. the love expressed in that picture shines for everyone to see. Well ,to me my quilts are my canvasses of life. I am finishing up some tops that I have made in the last five years. It is hard to quilt them on the frame with a sewing machine because you do not have the control that you have with a regular machine. I have done four quilts now. Two were just scrolling around on the fabric. then I made one for my daughter that has oriental motif. It has bridges. I choose the material because that is how her and her husband feel their lives are. Bridges between their past life and the future .
The one I am doing now is pinwheels. It is a little like learning to color inside the lines in a coloring book. the first few rows have squiggly lines but now I am getting better at controlling the machine. I will try to post a picture of this latest quilt.

Going to work with my kids , as I call them is also like having a blank canvas and being able to help them become good people. In the four months since we started with this new class, I have seen such great strides of growth with them. Not only have they grown physically and mentally
but they are developing skills ,such as cutting, coloring, eating meals without spills. The list goes
on and on as I am sure that those of you who are just starting on this process giving birth,raising
children are well aware of.

I personally enjoy seeing the videos that you all post. It is wonderful seeing the family growing .
You should all be very proud of yourselves and your families. I know I am.

I have started school again. I am taking a class on being a teacher's aide. It at a adult education school. It is a new class, so we are guinea pigs so to speak. But then I always like to be first in line. Also going to start learning conversational Spanish with a friend of mine. Then I can talk with the kids better. It is hard on me not to be able to understand a child and unable to have them understand me. Course there again that is my desire to be first in line .

Well, I have rambled on long enough. Time to go back to the quilt frame. Write if you get work, Stop by if you are in the area, the latch key is out.

Saturday, December 27, 2008

Hidden Treasures

Isn't christmas the most wonderful time of the year. I love it? I am still such a kid at heart, I get so excited. I make cookies, fudge, Haystacks, Trail mix. Course I make sure that my Kids(?) get some of all this, then I make it for my special kids at school, my grandkids and now my greatgrand kids. I really have to thank my mom, Grandma to some of you, great grandma to some of you and great great grandma to others. when I first got married I had not seen my mom for several years and we wanted to spend time with each other and did, When Christmas came I was pregnant with my first child feeling very lonely because I had grown up in Nebraska, that was where my home had been for twenty years.But when we went to visit Mom and Grandpa Ted. It was such a great time of the year and with the snow etc, I began to feel that maybe I wasn't so homesick as I thought I was. Mom had all these coffee cans, she and Ted were big coffee drinkers, always a pot on .Back then coffee came in decorative cans, 3lbs per can, Mom saved them. (she was not a pack rat only a collector) When she started to bake cookies she figured out how many people were in each family and filled the cans appropriately. Every year she looked for a new cookie recipe to try out and give us. But thru the years Haystacks have stayed my kids favorite. They are very simple and are fun for children to make too.
Now my grandkids love them and I have to make haystacks. In later years I got the trail mix recipe from my good friend and because they love that too, I always make sure they get some.

Then earlier this year I mentioned my grandma Hayward grew Turkeys. that started me on a quest to find a picture of them. Well, I now have 127 pictures scanned on to my computer from those old days and I must say some of them are very ,very old. I have a picture of my dad,Joe Hayward that has the date of 1927 and it is still good. So my project for the next year is to put those in a photo album for all to see. I am a pack rat so. When I turned 45 a few years ago, my oldest daughter put these pictures in albums for me. Now I want to share them. I hope all will view them and enjoy them.

Now on to more hidden treasures. I live alone, I like it. I have also thru the years managed to do minor repairs on things in my house or some on the cars. I always say that it is my midwestern upbringing. Maybe so , maybe it is the stubborness I inherited from my Mom and my Grandma Hayward. Anyway a few months a go I started smelling a strange smell in my water, mostly the hot . I kept trying to get hold of the water company and be putting on hold drives me crazy, leaving messages didn't seem to help. Tues, when I went by to get my check from Foster grandparents, I remember that the water company was neighbors to my office, I stopped in .The lady was more interested in sampling the festive goods then waiting on me but finally to rid herself of this annoying older woman she agreed to file a work request, for them to check the water. I was busy all day and left for Chowchilla to be with my daughter Patti and family for Christmas and did not check messages. When I got home Christmas day, I checked phone messages. water man had called left several messages. When I called him yesterday. He told me how to flush the water heater and then the rest of the lines. I knew I could do it cause all I had to do was hook the hose to the water heater open up the line drain until there was cold water and then go thru the process in reverse. then flush the house pipes. Sounded easy ,Right Right! except the turn off valve would not go back on, I am not able to turn off the outside water, should have done it before I took the hose off. That would have been too easy. couldn't get the hose on , had water gushing. So I ran outside praying that I could get the water turned off, this was my second try. Well it worked, but I was soaked ,my garage was flooded and I was almost beside myself. I rushed to the phone and called my friend Bob the father of my adopted great grandkids and said HELP. He came, put a new faucet because the old one had the threads stripped . Well, then I started working on drying out the garage. Crying a little in flustration,
luckily have most things in plastic out there. that is the important things like fabrics. Worked for a while, said I'll work again tomorrow when it warms up. Today it is drier and I am sweeping, when I ran the broom under the dryer, out popped the hidden treasure. I found 59 cents under there. Thus the hidden treasure. I laughed and laughed.

Haystacks

I use two packages large packages of Chow mein noodles

Two large serving spoons of peanut butter.

Two 11.5 oz packages of butterscotch chips

Melt chips and peanut butter in large pan over low heat

stir chow mein noodles until well coated drop by spoon fuls on waxed paper, let set up .

Enjoy!!!

Trail mix

M&M's

cashews

raisins

Amount depends on your personal needs or wants Mix together ENJOY

This recipe was given to me by a friend who was a diabetic also a kidney transplant patient. She assured me that it was very healthy.


Sorry this is so long. just had to tell you all MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY NEW YEAR. I enjoy reading what you and your families are doing. Hope I don't bore you too much with the family history.

Thursday, November 27, 2008

HAPPY THANKSGIVING

I am just popping in to say Happy Thanksgiving . Every year at this time I take time to think of my Grandma and Grandpa Hayward. For years Grandma raised Turkeys, She gave them to her children . Back then to have a 25lb turkey was unusual and to have white turkeys was unheard of. Grandpa said she liked the turkeys better than she did him. She literally hand feed them to hear him talk. She is part of the Nebraska State history for raising those turkeys. I don't remember much about those years except what I heard from Grandpa and saw in a book on Nebraska history. When my grandson Joseph was in the tenth grade, he raised turkeys for his FFA project. He lived in Fresno and I ,of course, lived up here. but I did manage to make three trips down there to see his turkeys and laugh. Because turkeys are the dumbest fowl there is .

Just a short history note from the archives.

Sunday, November 2, 2008

WEEKENDS

When I worked at IRS , I lived for the weekends, especially when it meant a visit with my kids and grand kids. Then I started working retail and there were no sat and sun off. Then came my job at Comcast and I again had weekends off , but was too tired to do anything and the grandkids had grown up.

Now weekends are again a priority for me . This weekend Shane and Hunter came over on Sat night for Pizza. so I decided to try something I had wanted to do for many years. I found on sale a HAUNTED HOUSE gingerbread kit. Shane will be five the end of Nov and Hunter just turned two Oct 31. Being a novice at this type of project, I was chuckling to my self as I left my local Beverly's at the thought of doing this with two small children. We had fun, we had orange and black frosting on us , on the kids table, on the kitchen counters, on our clothes. but having done cookies and cupcakes as crafts for school party I said I can do this. Course I forgot that we had three adults at the table when we frosted cookies and cupcakes. I insisted that their parents take the house home. I did get pictures.

There is so much joy in having children around. I hope all of us take the time to stop and enjoy that time. I know I didn't because of my work but have been able to do this with not only the children in my family but also with the children at the school. We dressed up for our party. I wore my red hat dress, hat, braclets,purple socks, carried my queen bag and wore my purple boa .

I so enjoyed seeing the costumes on your blogs. Keep up the great work.

Hope all are well.

Thursday, October 9, 2008

audio books

I love audio books because they can ride around with you and entertain you and you don't lose all that time that you wanted to read and had to run errands,go to work etc.
I have Frindel in my car right now because I pick up my adopted great grandson Shane from school and we both like stories and reading. I also have Sing a Song of Tuna Fish. I find it different. I have been using audio books for many years just because I wanted to spend some quality time in my car. It is so boring to ride in a car with just music.

Frindel makes me laugh because a few years ago I replaced a dictionary that I had had for many years and boy what a surprise to see some of the words that are now in the dictionary. Such as Quillow. combination pillow and quilt. this set me thinking of all kinds of words you only hear in certain geographical areas.

I am going to see if I can find The Grapes of Wrath on audio. I have read it many years ago,
but would love to revisit it and audio would be good.

Sunday, October 5, 2008

EXPORT






Well, I finally sent my first export to India. I have a friend that I meet last year because her son was in our class. Her inlaws were going to India and wanted me to make them a quilt for their granddaughter in India. I had made my friend's son one last year with Cars on it and his and his cousin's picture on it. If I can download the pictures I will so you can see it. I used Dora, The Explorer and pink fabric for top and pink flannel for the back. Photo quilts are so much fun and I love the results. You can use any copier and buy the sew in copier material that is available from several different outlets including Walmart. It is washable, so no problem with using it on a quilt for kids. I also made a pillowcase, so the quilt fit right into it.